tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992493286608488133.post616009959116460761..comments2023-05-03T03:16:27.823-07:00Comments on Mutterings of eringirl: hardest part of having twins (so far...)erin - mutterings of eringirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17574111798768030722noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992493286608488133.post-76218299961373078992011-02-17T10:37:24.402-08:002011-02-17T10:37:24.402-08:00This is hard. I hold and soothe one of the girls b...This is hard. I hold and soothe one of the girls because she is upset. Meanwhile her sister sits in her swing or lays on her blanket contently. They deserve love and attention whether they're smiling or crying. It's the tightrope of multiples.Brandonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16863964226065899981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2992493286608488133.post-64555701157304074922011-02-17T06:55:42.318-08:002011-02-17T06:55:42.318-08:00This will always be hard. You've discovered t...This will always be hard. You've discovered the never ending dilemma of motherhood! Twins or not, once there is more than one child, you are constantly trying to balance your time between them. It's not that you learn from the first born with non multiples, it then becomes that you expect a 2 1/2 year old to be rational and understand when you need to tend to your infant! Or, I often feel that I "rush" my little one through the learning stages as she needs to be more flexible because of her sisters schedule and I took so much more time with the older one. She's growing up too fast. In the end, we just do the best we can do. Try not to miss too many moments and constantly love them unconditionally. <br />You are doing a fabulous job!! Best,<br />NicoleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com